What's The Difference Between Being With Jesus?And Being Without Him?

I don't know why am I blogging now...because I have a whole load of work to finish.Since the creative spirit is flowing,the urge is here,then just do it!

Well basically this post is more about me.If you are not interested in reading about me,you may decide to stop reading at this moment.If you are...then let's move on.

It's another Saturday night...family gathering as well.Interestingly tonight,someone seemed to be very angry with me.Why?I don't know,probably he's mad with me for overridding what he said.

But hey,I need to solve a problem.If I had been offensive then I apologise.

And you are wondering now...who is mad with me?What is the problem?And what did he say?

Patience my friend...you shall know in due time.

For the past few months,my uncle found that the money in his bank account did not balance with the amount written in the cheque book.He wanted me to investigate the matter.I went to find out the source of the problem and started a new system for him.

Using the system,we managed to track down every transaction.It seemed to be a robust system.

However,after sometime,I discovered that some transaction were not recorded.Reason be that the bank only sends the statement in the middle of the next month.Sometimes certain transactions were overlooked and that caused the accounts not to balance.

I suggested to my uncle to apply for internet banking so that we can track all the transactions at anytime.Efficency is increased and it's easier for tracking purposes.He told me that my cousin said that it was very risky to do internet banking.

Reason:Someone can hack into your account and create havoc.

My reply was simple..."I will go and figure out the whole thing.Let's see what options we have,then decide if we want to apply for internet banking."My uncle agreed.

After checking out the website and reading the FAQs,I realised that there were 2 types of accounts.First type is an Equiry account.This only allows you to access your account balance and enquiry about other account related information.

The other type is a Transaction Account.This allows you to do money transactions like borrowing money or transfeering funds.It costs $30 per month.For our purposes,we only need an enquiry account.I presented the case to my uncle.He agreed to do it.

But he added "How come your cousin doesn't know about this?".

Damn it,the next thing that will happend is that my cousin is going to get upset with me.In a way,I was overidding what he said.I'm not really concerned about what he thinks about me.I don't give a damn what people think about me.I'm paid to solve problems.

Simple as that.

Indeed,I was right about this matter.My uncle asked me where I wanted to go for dinner,I suggested a new coffee shop that sells "Bak Kut Teh"(Pork Ribs in Soup) that's near my place.They haven't been there before.

When we reached there,after eating,my uncle asked for my cousin's comment on the food.Here's the reply..."If you want my comments,I'll be brutally honest with you...It's terrible!The soup is not up to standard,so is the meat!No standard at all!"

Wow,hear the manager talk...the manager says it sucks.So it must really suck right?Hahaha,I was pretty amused with his comment and his behaviour.I didn't say anything,but continued eating.

Oh yes,forgot to tell you,he's a manager.Why?Read on to find out...

Few weeks ago,my mum told me this..."Hey you know what,your aunt says that your cousin 'heard' from someone in his office that they are going to groom him to become manager."

"Wah really?Hahaha then aunt must be REALLY PROUD.And you can probably see their heads in the air.Hahaha don't forget to say 'Good morning manager' when you see him OK?"Hahahaha
I continued to laugh.

Now I can read your mind,you probably think that I'm belittling him.You probably think that I'm an arrogant asshole who loves belittling people.Let me explain myself...

This family loves to show off.To them they are always the best.It seems that they have the "Midas Touch".Everything they touch will turn to gold.Anything associated to them is the best.My cousin is pretty arrogant nowdays.Could sense it when he talks.

Back to what I was saying...I could sense that he was angry with me for saying that internet banking is workable and that I was able to address my uncle's concerns.To him I was claiming credit.

Now,the next thing you might be wondering is...What has all these got to do with Jesus?

My answer...PLENTY.

Let me explain...

Now,many years back,when I wasn't a Christian,if such things happended,I would flare up and try to lash back.It's my character trait.I don't like it when people try to oppose me or challenge me.If they do that,I'll go all out to fight them till I win.

Fast forward to the present day...Praise Jesus for peace and wisdom.

My enemies were unhappy with me.They try to attack me whenever they can.But here I am,calm and collected.The best part is this...I started to sympathise with them.I never felt this way before.I never felt love towards my enemies.

Praise Jesus.He taught me how to love my enemies.The revelation is this..."When you have love and peace in your heart,no enemy can harm you in any way."

Now,why did I say wisdom?Wisdom because I knew it was not wise to go head on and lash out at someone who doesn't know what he's doing.Why peace?Peace because I was not the least disturbed by his comments.Instead,my mum was very angry.Her comments as follows..."How dare he speak in that manner.Who does he think he is?!"

Hahaha..."We must forgive the ignorant and childish."That was my reply to her.

Now,let me ask you a question...when someone judges you,who is that person?Or rather what right has he to judge you?You don't need anyone to approve of how good you are.

Similarly,who am I to judge others?Who am I to despise them?They don't need my approval to be good.

They are entitled to their opinions.So am I.

But seriously speaking,I'm too busy to bother about what people think of me.I've better things to do that to please everyone.Those who like to judge others are usually people who have nothing.That's why they want to be critical of others.

Throughout my entire life,I never liked to despise others.Because I didn't like people to despise me.(Last time,but not now.)

Now I have shalom peace and wisdom.But most importantly,I have a HEAVENLY FATHER WHO LOVES ME UNCONDITIONALLY.I think that's the most important.If you have received Jesus as Lord and Saviour,you know what I mean.But if you have not,probably now's a good time to do so...

If you would like to receive Jesus as Lord and saviour,let me pray this prayer with you...

"Lord Jesus,thank You for loving me and dying for me on the cross.Your precious blood washes me clean of every sin.You are my Lord,my Saviour and my God,now and forever.I believe that You rose from the dead and that You are alive today.God,You are my Father and I am Your child because of Jesus Christ.Thank You for filling my heart with your peace and joy.In Jesus' name,Amen."

Praise the Lord.Congrats if you have prayed the above prayer.Let me tell you,I am a changed person.Favour keeps descending on me.I'm leading a very blessed life.I hope that you will be blessed as well.Welcome to God's family.

If you are looking for a good home church to join,you might want to check out New Creation Church(If you are in Singapore) www.newcreation.org.sg .If not,whereever you are,look for Kenneth Copeland Ministries www.kcm.org .

I learnt a lot from these 2 ministries.You will be blessed too.

OK,speaking of the next entries...Next time round I'll be sharing about the lessons I've learnt from Romance of 3 Kingdoms.Another time,it's going to be about improving relationships with your spouse."Why Are Men Like RubberBands?"

Interested?Then stay tuned.

May God bless you mightily.