10 Tips To Look Like A Super-Confident Person
July is here.Today,I have something important to share with you.Something which I believe have opened my eyes.This information has benefitted me.I hope you will also gain some insights from it.
Let's give credit to the author of "Always In The Kitchen At Parties",Leil Lowndes.After reading almost her books,I have gained a lot of knowledge on communication and being sociable.I highly recommend reading her books if you want to know more friends or looking for your special half.
Anyway,I'm here to share with you something which I read in "Always In The Kitchen At Parties".If you are a shy person like me,you will definitely benefit from this information.Are you ready?Let's begin...
10 TIPS TO LOOK LIKE A SUPER-CONFIDENT PERSON
1.When you are at a gathering,do not stand close to the wall or by the snacks.Walk directly to the dead center of the room.That's where all the important people instinctively stand.
2.When you are going through a large door or open double doors,don't walk on one side.Walk straight through the center.It signifies confidence.
3.At a restaurant,unless there is an established hierarchy,go for the seat at the end of the table,facing the door.That is the power position.
4.Sit in the highest chair in a meeting or on the arm of a couch - but not higher than the boss.
5.Make larger,more fluid movements.Confident people's bodies occupy more space.Shys take as little as possible,as if to say,'Excuse me for taking up this much of the earth.'
6.Keep your hands away from your face and never fidget.
7.When you agree with someone,nod your head up from neutral(jaw parallel to the floor),not down.
8.When walking towards someone and passing,be the last to break eye-contact.
9.For men:Don't strut like a bantam rooster.But to look like a leader,swing your arms more significantly when you walk.When you are seated,put one arm up on the back of the chair.Occasionally lean back with your arms up and your hands behind your head.
10.For women:To seem self-assured,square your body towards the person you're talking to and stand a tad closer.Naturally,give a big smile but let it come ever so slightly so it looks sincere,not nervous.
OK,there you are.10 simple tips to make you look confident.One more tip from me...
FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT.
Have a great weekend!
Let's give credit to the author of "Always In The Kitchen At Parties",Leil Lowndes.After reading almost her books,I have gained a lot of knowledge on communication and being sociable.I highly recommend reading her books if you want to know more friends or looking for your special half.
Anyway,I'm here to share with you something which I read in "Always In The Kitchen At Parties".If you are a shy person like me,you will definitely benefit from this information.Are you ready?Let's begin...
10 TIPS TO LOOK LIKE A SUPER-CONFIDENT PERSON
1.When you are at a gathering,do not stand close to the wall or by the snacks.Walk directly to the dead center of the room.That's where all the important people instinctively stand.
2.When you are going through a large door or open double doors,don't walk on one side.Walk straight through the center.It signifies confidence.
3.At a restaurant,unless there is an established hierarchy,go for the seat at the end of the table,facing the door.That is the power position.
4.Sit in the highest chair in a meeting or on the arm of a couch - but not higher than the boss.
5.Make larger,more fluid movements.Confident people's bodies occupy more space.Shys take as little as possible,as if to say,'Excuse me for taking up this much of the earth.'
6.Keep your hands away from your face and never fidget.
7.When you agree with someone,nod your head up from neutral(jaw parallel to the floor),not down.
8.When walking towards someone and passing,be the last to break eye-contact.
9.For men:Don't strut like a bantam rooster.But to look like a leader,swing your arms more significantly when you walk.When you are seated,put one arm up on the back of the chair.Occasionally lean back with your arms up and your hands behind your head.
10.For women:To seem self-assured,square your body towards the person you're talking to and stand a tad closer.Naturally,give a big smile but let it come ever so slightly so it looks sincere,not nervous.
OK,there you are.10 simple tips to make you look confident.One more tip from me...
FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT.
Have a great weekend!
posted by Marco at 10:07 AM
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