Friday, August 11, 2006

How Picking Up 1 Cent Coins On The Street Can Lead You To Riches.....

I'm back again.How have you been during the past week?Hope you are had a blessed week.Today is Friday,so do enjoy yourself..........

I've been very busy as usual.And finally........I wrote my own book.Haha didn't expect me to be an author eh?You'll know when the time comes.........what my book is about.Stay tuned ok?

OK,time for tonight's topic............

Can picking up 1 cent coins on the street lead you to riches?

YES IT CAN!

Nope,I am not kidding.I'm perfectly serious about this..............

Let me explain why..........

It's all a matter of accepting.If you accept something given to you and be grateful about it,the Universe or God will give you more of it.If you have tried it before,you know what I mean.It may not be money you are grateful for.Probably some other things.

At the end of the day,whatever you are grateful for will multiply.

So coming back to the money on the street.The "1 cent" in the heading was meant to catch your attention.The fact is.........it applies that whatever small amounts you see on the street on in the park.As long as the person who dropped the coin is not around,trying to look for his coin,you are free to pick it up and keep it.

It may be a dollar,50 cents,20 cents ,10 cents,5 cents or 1 cent.Just pick it up and declare this out aloud,"I'm a money magnet,thank you thank you thank you!"

Once you do this,you will be able to attract more money into your life.GURANTEED!

Let me share something related with you...........

Poor people are lousy receivers,rich people are good receivers.If you notice,there are certain people out there,when you give them a compliment,they try to "deflect" it.Or if you try to bless them with a gift or some money,they won't accept it.

Then later they complain that they are poor,they are not blessed...........does that sound familiar?

I came across many of such people.And the sad thing is...........I was one of them once upon a time.If you happend to be like that..........don't worry,there's a cure.

The first thing you can do is to accept compliments.If someone tells you your shirt looks good,just reply,"Why,thank you." Don't have to pay them a compliment back.This is to program your mind to receive.

Now,you may be wondering,if you keep receiving,will you seem greedy?And will the person giving you be losing out?

The answer is NO for both questions.

Firstly,when you receive,you are doing the giving party a favour.By giving,the other party is blessed.If you don't receive,you are depriving him of his blessings.And let me tell you this,I hate it when people don't accept my gifts to them.So next time if I give you a gift,you know what to do ok?

Next,if you receive,you should also give.You may not give to the same person,but you should definitely give.Give to someone who is in need.Don't give to people who are greedy.(That's my policy)If you feel that you should not judge anyone and just give freely,by all means do it.

I admit here that I am not that nice.I hate people who take advantage and those cheapskates.Can never tolerate them.You may be the nice guy who can tolerate these people.Give to them,you will be mightily blessed.I'm still trying to overcome giving to these people.

Well,it feels good to give.Especially when you know that the other person is blessed because of you.And when you do that,you are indirectly telling yourself that you are super-blessed.And that will cause more blessings to come into your life.

Now,this is what I experience personally.You are welcome to follow what I do.

My philsophy is this "I afford can give because God's blessings are overflowing in me.I live in a world of abundance.If I run out of anything,God will fill it back for me."

Well,that's my topic for tonight.Next,I'll share about personal stuff........those who are interested can stay behind.If not you can start to leave my blog........

I have some thoughts that I think I should put them down.For my own reference as well as for you,if you happend to be thinking about the same thing...........

National Day has just passed.............our country is 41 this year.And.......this year,for the first time,I feel super-blessed being a Singaporean.Yes.........first time in the 26 years of my life I felt this way.Well,I may not feel proud,but I do feel blessed being a Singaporean.

Why?

I don't feel proud because I don't like the way certain Singaporeans behave.They are very inconsiderate in public places.Some of them are very selfish,for their own convience,they cause inconvienence to others.

If you drive and travel by plane on Economic Class,you'll know what I mean.They are good at obstructing the way.Sometimes when I'm overseas and someone asks where I am from,I answer Singapore and they seem to look at me in another way.(Not so good way).

Do Singaporeans really have a bad reputation in other countries?For being "kiasu",inconsiderate,blur?Well,I don't know.

Let me tell you why I feel blessed.........

I feel blessed because we are safe here.There are no natural disasters,the country is safe to be in.The police force here is efficent.You can walk alone in the wee hours and don't have to worry about being mugged.Our government is good,there is no corruption.

I didn't feel this way previously because I didn't know what it was like in other countries.Recently,I started to make it a point to pray for those who needed prayer in Daily Guide Posts.com.I realised that there are many people staying in other countries who live in fear everyday.

They don't know when their houses will be blown away by the typhoon,or burnt down by forest fire.Some of them don't know where their next meal is coming from.Of course there are others who are fearful because of the dangerous place they are staying in.

When I came back from Penang,there was this middle-aged gentleman sitting across me on the coach.He was from Jakarta and he told me that they live in constant fear everyday.He was a rich businessman who went to Penang to have an operation.He told me the prices were reasonable and the doctors are good.

When I asked about Jakarta,he told me that at night,no one dares to go out.The crime rate is very high and the robbers there are violent.You can get killed anytime.The law enforcement there is not strict.You can kill someone and get away with it.

Try that here and you see what happends.

So I really feel blessed to be staying in Singapore.If you are a fellow Singaporean who is unhappy,don't complain.You are really blessed.

Next is about family relationships..............

I received a call from my business partner,Benedict last night.He needed to speak to me urgently.He mentioned that he was at a loss..............should he quit school and go full time into the business or continue but fail the subjects?

I take my hat off him.It is not his fault that he ended up there,but yet he is still considering about the money his parents will be wasting if he fails...........Personally I feel that if they force him to go there,they can't complain if he fails.

Let me share the whole story here...........I'm sure Ben wouldn't mind me sharing.......

He's a Junior College student who continued his studies in NTU(university) because his parents wanted him to have a degree.He studied Bio-sciences in NTU,because his mum wanted him to.He had no interest in the subject and struggled with the course.

Finally he couldn't take it and quit.Then his mum compelled him to study Physiotherapy in Australia.He agreed to go even though it wasn't what he was really interested in.............

He wanted to study about business.He wants to become a successful businessman.But his parents didn't see it in the same way.Simple reason.......because they believe you got to "Study hard,get a good job.........."

They are operating in a different mindset as us.I got shot by his dad at the Airport for introducing Ben to the Neways opportunity.He spoke with contempt.I nearly fired back,but I didn't want to because after all he was Ben's dad.

Ben told me yesterday that he had no motivation in going for lessons.His whole heart and soul is in our business.See,I told you I was super-blessed.I have a commited partner.*smiles*

Back to the story..........through the teleconversation,we explored the different scenarios that will happen if he came back to Singapore or if he remained in Australia.At the end we decided that it was better for him to remain in Australia.

Because if he came back,his parents will make him work and they will definitely screw him hard for not completing the course.But is it his fault?NO,definitely not!In the first place,they should have let him studied what he wanted to.Encourage him to pursue his goals.

Coming back to me...........I'm also in a similar situation as him.But praise God,at least I have a supportive mum.My dad condemns me.He always compares me with my brother.My brother has good grades and has a great future in store for him.His course director and lecturers hold him in high esteem.

What about me?A condemned poly student,who did poorly in school.And had no desire to go for a degree.Doomed.No future at all.Right?

WRONG!My future is in my own hands.I create my own destiny.

But there is a price for all this.........you have to be able to withstand the condemnation.Not only that,you have to be strong so that you won't crumble down when those negative remarks reach you.

Let me tell you,not only my dad condemns me,the bitch Dennis Trident and her daughter also looks down on me.She'll openly say nice things about my cousin Richard in front of me.When her friends come,she'll introduce Richard and treat me transparent.

Not only that,she's always finding trouble for me.Why?Because she feels that I'm living on the Pharoah and it will affect the amount of money she's going to inherit.She and my dad have been trying to psycho the Pharoah not to sponsor me for any trips.

What will you do if you were me??

Hahaha I don't give a damn about them.Seriously.To me they are just low class animals.Not worth my attention.Sorry if I sound offensive.But that's my personality.I don't mince words when I insult people I dislike.

That's one of the prices you pay to be go "your way".The whole world will tell you what is "good for you".But at the end of the day,it's "good for them" and not "good for you".People are selfish,for their own interest,they can "kill and destroy" another person's future.

Let me tell you this............NO ONE DECIDES YOUR FUTURE.YOU DECIDE YOURSELF.

No amount of condemnation can stop you from achieving your dreams and goals.Only yourself.

These bastards can condemn me all they want.But at the end of the day,I will still emerge victorious.I know my destination in life.

What's yours?

If you don't have one,find one.If you have one,go all out for it!

You have to find one..................or live in mediocrity for the rest of your life.

Remember,you are not here to please anyone.You can't please everyone in this world.Someone will hate you somehow.

Many people make this mistake.They want to be Mr Nice Guy and please everyone.End of the day,they suffer.Like me..............I suffered because I tried to please everyone.If you ask Ben,he went through the same shit too.

People don't appreciate you.They treat you like a sucker!You become like a ball,they can kick you anywhere.Of course I'm not telling you to be aggresive and offensive.You can be a nice guy in other areas of your life,but when it comes to your future,DON'T COMPROMISE!!!

One of the worse scenarios is being condemned by your own parents.I really feel sorry for you,if you are facing this situation.But don't give up!Keep going for your goals and dreams!You only have ONE LIFE.Are you going to live in vain??

I am not.To hell with all these bastards.What do they know?They want you to do what they want you to do for their own interests.

For Ben's and my case,just because we don't want to study what our parents want us to study,in their eyes,we are failures.

But in reality,we know we are not.WE ARE CHAMPIONS!!

Parents,don't condemn your children.Sometimes you may have their highest interests at heart,but do listen to them.Find out what they really want.If they have a goal or dream,support them wholeheartedly and encourage them.They will appreciate it.

You know..............sometimes when you keep being a good boy or nice guy,at your own expense..............one day.........hatred will consume you and you will rebel.Not only rebel,you might do crazy things which will harm yourself.

That happended to me before.I felt victimized and started to go crazy.I did a lot of things that I shouldn't have done.Things that harmed others and myself.I just wanted revenge back then.I hated the whole world!I always "Why me?".I got really hateful especially when I saw others having what I did not have.

Haiz.........that was my past.But praise God!I have been forgiven for all my sins and I am a different person now.Trust me,you won't want to know me a few years back.

Oh well,the lesson is to learn to say NO when you need to.Don't try to be Mr Nice Guy everytime.You'll hurt yourself.Say YES only when you really can.I'm not saying you shouldn't help anyone,but exercise prudency.

Long post isn't it?Just wanted to let go of some emotions and thoughts......if you are being condemned,don't get upset.Because by getting upset,you can't change people's thoughts about you.I'll urge you to fight on for your dreams.

Your dreams are worth it.Leave the nay sayers behind.Charge on my friend!Be courageous!

Thank you for reading.God bless you!

Friday, August 04, 2006

The Most Popular Article Of All Time

I'm back for a short while.Just came across this article which I believe will be helpful to you.I didn't know that 3 simple words can actually change one's life for the better.........want to know what are they?

Read on........by the time you finish,you'll know.Enjoy the article by Dr Joe Vitale.

I'll be blogging again once I get my work done.See you then.

The World's Most Unusual Therapist

by Dr. Joe Vitale www.mrfire.com

Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients--without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate's chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person's illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.

When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?

It didn't make any sense. It wasn't logical, so I dismissed the story.

However, I heard it again a year later. I heard that the therapist had used a Hawaiian healing process called ho 'oponopono. I had never heard of it, yet I couldn't let it leave my mind. If the story was at all true, I had to know more.

I had always understood "total responsibility" to mean that I am responsible for what I think and do. Beyond that, it's out of my hands. I think that most people think of total responsibility that way. We're responsible for what we do, not what anyone else does. The Hawaiian therapist who healed those mentally ill people would teach me an advanced new perspective about total responsibility.

His name is Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. We probably spent an hour talking on our first phone call. I asked him to tell me the complete story of his work as a therapist. He explained that he worked at Hawaii State Hospital for four years. That ward where they kept the criminally insane was dangerous. Psychologists quit on a monthly basis. The staff called in sick a lot or simply quit. People would walk through that ward with their backs against the wall, afraid of being attacked by patients. It was not a pleasant place to live, work, or visit.

Dr. Len told me that he never saw patients. He agreed to have an office and to review their files. While he looked at those files, he would work on himself. As he worked on himself, patients began to heal.

"After a few months, patients that had to be shackled were being allowed to walk freely," he told me. "Others who had to be heavily medicated were getting off their medications. And those who had no chance of ever being released were being freed."

I was in awe.

"Not only that," he went on, "but the staff began to enjoy coming to work. Absenteeism and turnover disappeared. We ended up with more staff than we needed because patients were being released, and all the staff was showing up to work. Today, that ward is closed."

This is where I had to ask the million dollar question: "What were you doing within yourself that caused those people to change?"

"I was simply healing the part of me that created them," he said.

I didn't understand.

Dr. Len explained that total responsibility for your life means that everything in your life - simply because it is in your life--is your responsibility. In a literal sense the entire world is your creation.

Whew. This is tough to swallow. Being responsible for what I say or do is one thing. Being responsible for what everyone in my life says or does is quite another. Yet, the truth is this: if you take complete responsibility for your life, then everything you see, hear, taste, touch, or in any way experience is your responsibility because it is in your life.

This means that terrorist activity, the president, the economy--anything you experience and don't like--is up for you to heal. They don't exist, in a manner of speaking, except as projections from inside you. The problem isn't with them, it's with you, and to change them, you have to change you.

I know this is tough to grasp, let alone accept or actually live. Blame is far easier than total responsibility, but as I spoke with Dr. Len, I began to realize that healing for him and in ho 'oponopono means loving yourself. If you want to improve your life, you have to heal your life. If you want to cure anyone--even a mentally ill criminal--you do it by healing you.

I asked Dr. Len how he went about healing himself. What was he doing, exactly, when he looked at those patients' files?

"I just kept saying, 'I'm sorry' and 'I love you' over and over again," he explained.

That's it?

That's it.

Turns out that loving yourself is the greatest way to improve yourself, and as you improve yourself, your improve your world. Let me give you a quick example of how this works: one day, someone sent me an email that upset me. In the past I would have handled it by working on my emotional hot buttons or by trying to reason with the person who sent the nasty message. This time, I decided to try Dr. Len's method. I kept silently saying, "I'm sorry" and "I love you," I didn't say it to anyone in particular. I was simply evoking the spirit of love to heal within me what was creating the outer circumstance.

Within an hour I got an e-mail from the same person. He apologized for his previous message. Keep in mind that I didn't take any outward action to get that apology. I didn't even write him back. Yet, by saying "I love you," I somehow healed within me what was creating him.

I later attended a ho 'oponopono workshop run by Dr. Len. He's now 70 years old, considered a grandfatherly shaman, and is somewhat reclusive. He praised my book, The Attractor Factor. He told me that as I improve myself, my book's vibration will raise, and everyone will feel it when they read it. In short, as I improve, my readers will improve.

"What about the books that are already sold and out there?" I asked.

"They aren't out there," he explained, once again blowing my mind with his mystic wisdom.
"They are still in you."

In short, there is no out there.

It would take a whole book to explain this advanced technique with the depth it deserves. Suffice it to say that whenever you want to improve anything in your life, there's only one place to look: inside you.

"When you look, do it with love."

This article is from the forthcoming book "No Limits" by joe Vitale and Dr. Len

Thursday, August 03, 2006

The 7-DAY Exercise That Will Change Your Life

I'm back again,nice to see you again..........hope everything has been well for you.

It seems that this is quite a challenging period for many of us.A few of my friends have been writing me E-mails,sharing the challenges they are going through.Well,I am also going through some challenges.You can read about my stories later..........I will share with you a 7-Day Exercise that can change your life.

Are you ready for it?First of all,are you really commited to changing your life for the better?Are you willing to do anything it takes to improve your life?

You are?

Great,then let's begin...........

Do you have a rich man's mindset or a poor man's mindset?

You don't know?

Well then,let me reveal the 3 symptoms of a poor man's mindset........

1.Blame.......a poor man's mindset is always blaming people and circumstances.It's always easy to point fingers and not look at themselves.Let's see......there are many things to blame......

How many things can they blame?Government,employer,family,parents,economy,manager,up-line,down-line,cross-line,God,spouse,children and etc.......hahaha you fill in the blanks.

The only thing that they don't blame is........................?

THEMSELVES.

2.Justifying...........a typical answer when you ask someone with a poor man's mindset "Why are you not aiming to be rich?" will be "Money is not that important."

Does that sound very familiar?

When you share your goals with some of your friends,when trying to bring you down,is that a typical reply?

Listen up,my friend:Money is extremely important in the areas in which it works,and extremely unimportant in the areas which it doesn't.And although love may make the world go round,it sure doesn't pay for the building of any hospitals,churches,or homes.It also doesn't feed anybody.

Hey,want to have some fun?

Next time if someone tells you that money is not important,put your hand on your forehead and look up as though you are getting a message from the heavens,then exclaim "You're broke!"

To which,that person will undoubtedly respond "How did you know?"Then you stretch out your palm and you reply "What else do you want to know?That'll be fifty bucks,please!"

Hahaha see what happends after that.

You are welcome to post comments on what happended after you did that.

To put it bluntly,anyone who says money isn't important doesn't have any!

3.Complaining.........This is the ABSOLUTE WORST POSSIBLE thing people could do to their HEALTH or WEALTH.

Why?

Simple,because like attracts like.Whatever you focus your attention or energy on expands.You have a choice in attracting good or bad into your life.

Have you noticed this........complainers usually have a tough life?It seems that everything that can possibly go wrong does go wrong for them.Their justification will be "Of course I complain - look at how crappy my life is."

And now you can explain to them why is their life crappy.Oh yes,do yourself a BIG BIG FAVOUR by getting away from them.Because negative energy is infectious.

Let me share a personal story with you..............many years ago,I was also a complainer.I always complained about how crappy life was.How lonely I was..........all good things only happend to others and never happend to me.............I was condemned in life and etc............

I have 2 friends who share this hobby.We always got together and start complaining.Then we'll see who is the worst off.The one who has the most serious complain will feel good,because he feels good as a victim.

It always starts off with one person.The next person will say "If that is bad,wait till you hear what happend to me............." and the story goes on and on.

Speaking from personal experience,my life was indeed crappy back then.Thank God I discovered the law of attraction and I stopped complaining.Instead,I always give thanks for the good life I'm living.

As a result,I have a lot more blessings now than my complaining period.My life has changed for the better as well.

Of course I still complain occasionally nowdays,although not as bad a those days,I want to kick this habit totally.

Yes,I do get away from negative people.I can't stand them,they are like poison,they spread mind virus.I don't like gossipers too.When I work at the clinic,I come across a lot of such people.I usually don't talk to them or get out of the clinic,pretending to be going for breaks.

But the point I want to stress is that when you are surrounded by complainers,you become negative as well.The victim mentality sets in and destroys your future.Trust me on this.I've been through it.

Are you a victim or a victor?

You choose.

I am a victor.Though my name is not victor.*smile*

OK,are you ready for the 7-Day exercise that will change your life?

I am trying this myself,still trying to perfect it............it's a challenge.Are you ready to take it?

Yes?

OK here you go............

For the next 7 days,I challenge you not to complain at all.Not just out aloud,but in your head as well.But you have to do it for the full 7 days.Why?Because for the first few days,you may still have some "residual crap" coming to you from before.Unfortunately,crap doesn't travel at the speed of light,you know,it travels at the speed of crap,so it might take a while to clear out.

I have tried this..........and I failed for the first few days.I'm still striving not to complain.You might do better than me.

Please post your comments if you have done it successfully.I look forward to you living a better life.

This post is actually for my friends.My friends who are going through a challenging period.Don't worry,I won't tell you to shut up and get away from me.I just want to encourage you and get you through this tough period.

I treasure our friendship and I hope this post will change your life for the better.

OK,now it's about myself...........plenty happended during this period.

Hmm..........hope this doesn't sound like complaining.But anyway,it's the truth.

I nearly got into a car accident on Sunday.All thanks to Dennis Trident.Well,a leopard never changes its spots.I always give people chances,but I think she's just incorrigible.Can't blame me for disliking her.

After lunch on Sunday,the Pharoah suggested that we have a drive to NUH.Because Trident is going for some medical appointment this week,so he wanted to make sure she was familiar with the location.

Actually it's crap,it's because he wanted to go there himself.So no choice,I had to drive.From city area to NUH(National University Hospital),the fastest way is to go by AYE(Ayer Rajah Expressway),exit from South Buona Vista Road.

When I reached the Lower Delta Road exit,suddenly Trident commanded me to exit.I was driving on the extremely right lane,had to cut across 3 lanes to the exit.It was really dangerous.Anyway I did it because I didn't know where exactly they wanted to go.

There were many cars approaching from behind at a high.It was very dangerous.After the exit I asked her where exactly she wanted to go.She said NUH.I said fine,direct me how to get there.She said AYE.

But before I exited,I said that AYE was the fastest way there.What the hell is she trying to do?I don't know.Anyway,I got to navigate through heavy traffic and do a U-turn to go back.

She's just God damn irritating.

When we were leaving from there,she commanded me to turn right and the Pharoah commanded me to turn left.Where the fuck do they want me to go?I was really irritated.In the end we got "lost" in the maze of roads there.Then there was a part where I did see a car approaching from the other side.Nearly got into accident.

Finally we got to South Buona Vista Road and managed to see AYE.She started her nonsense again.Trying to direct me where to go.She thinks she knows it all.But she should just shut up and enjoy the ride.

I made it a point,if she's on board,I won't drive.I will not tolerate her nonsense.She really tests my patience.It's a matter of time I'll tear her face in front of everybody.

Her nonsense didn't just stop there.My cousin Richard wanted to go to Great World City,he has to reach there at around 3pm.I tried to think of the fastest way to go because he was slightly late.

That bitch started her nonsense again,tried to tell me where to go.The most irritating thing is you have to justify why you want to go by your route.I can simply say that my route is the fastest.But it's terrible.I don't want to start a debate.As it is we are rushing for time.

I appreciate my cousin Richard for asking her to shut up and let me drive.Hahaha,he knew I was on the verge of exploding anytime.She should thank him instead.I know she won't like it if I explode.

Finally...........when she got off the car,there was peace.The Pharoah didn't say much.He is ok.It's only when the bitch(Trident) is around,life difficult.

Just out of curiosity,why did God let her live so long?A loser like her shouldn't stay in this world.Next is............I hope I don't see her in Heaven.She's one of the people I don't wish to see ever again.Whether on earth or in heaven.

Oh well,that's about her.

About me............I have been working overnight this period.There is so much to learn and so much to apply.But the good thing is I enjoy my work.Today my work load is not that heavy,that's why I am able to blog.

Another reason for blogging is to hope to encourage my friends who are going through a challenging period.

Hmm............I've been facing challenges too.You know something?

There is a price to pay for not following the herd.Or rather following the masses.

When you do that,people alienate you.Including your family members.But let me ask you this...........who are the rich and successful people?The masses or the minority?I'm sure you'll agree it's the minority.

You probably know why I have a few friends.Most people can't accept my way of thinking.That's why I only have a friends.They are people who are like-minded.But let me tell you something,if you want to be rich and successful,don't follow the herd.

If you follow the majority........you will be like them............unsuccessful and leading lives of mediocrity.

I know this statement will offend many people.But it's the brutal truth.I don't despise anyone.But being mediocre is not my cup of tea.

I am condemned in my family,because I don't have a university degree.Unlike my brother,who has a bright future.He has done well in school,they are sending him overseas for industrial attachment.He has good results,unlike me who got all the Cs and Ds back in polytechnic days.

Well,nothing against my brother,I know he'll have a bright future.I know I'll have a bright future too.But I got to overcome the condemnation that I'm facing now.Hahaha may God give me the strength to overcome all these.

Other people may condemn you.That's ok,but if your own parent condemns you,that's another story.Well,I'm not complaining or blaming anyone.I just want to try to break free from these negative influences.

I felt pretty down yesterday night.When I was on the last bus home,God actually spoke to me.He encouraged me to have faith and confidence in myself.After all,I don't need anyone's permission to succeed.If He's with me,who can be against me?

Praise God,He's always there for me............me on the other hand only pray and worship when I'm in some kind of trouble.I'm ashamed of myself.Actually last night I didn't pray or anything,He just spoke to me through my spirit.

It was really encouraging.God spoke about jealousy and how it came about.I shall share it with you...............

How do jealous people come about?The seed of jealousy is unhappiness.You can't be jealous if you are already happy.People must be unhappy first in order to be jealous.

The next stage is when they see others having what they desire to have and don't have,this is where jealousy starts.When that happends,a vicious cycle begins...........

The more jealous they get,the further the object of their desires goes away from them.The more they can't get what they want,the more jealous they get.This cycle will never end...........

Unless these people wake up and stop being jealous.

How do you counter jealousy?

Simple,by being happy and grateful for all your blessings.From my personal experience,after being grateful for all my blessings,more blessings came to me.

I believe God wanted me to share this with you.Hope you are blessed.

Don't fall into the trap of jealousy.It will kill you.When people get jealous,they get sick easily.All the cancer and other funny illnesses go to them.

OK,that's all for tonight.I hope to be blogging again soon.It will depend on my work load.I will do my best to blog often.In the meantime,try the exercise and be blessed.

All The Best.