Monday, November 27, 2006

Attention:Brothers & Sisters In Christ!Are Your Blessings Being Robbed By The Devil?

Good morning.It's a wonderful November morning.Today I would like to touch on the blessings of God.Actually came across some sermons by Pastor Joseph Prince,it's a series called "Good Things Happen To Those Who Believes That God Loves Them".

I received some revelations from theese sermons that actually set me free from bondage.Have been planning to share these insights with you,but I was busy with work.Until this morning,I felt a stirring in my spirit.By the time you finish reading this post,you should be free.

Question:Are you righteous?

My answer was no.I have done so many wrongs.Even after I became a Christian,I've done some wrongs too.Like not being forgiving and not loving those I dislike.Not loving my enemies.

You may be in my position,you feel that you are not righteous because of many things you have done in the past.Or certain things that you have done after being a Christian.

WE ARE ALL WRONG!Once we are saved we are righteous.All your sins,past present and future have been paid for by our Lord Jesus Christ.He got comdemned so that we can become righteous.He paid the price for all our sins.

If we don't believe that we are made righteous,He suffered for us in vain.It's like someone who helped you pay your debts and you refuse to believe that you debts have been paid.

Now that you know you are righteous,let's look at Proverbs 10:24(NIV)...

What the wicked dreads will overtake him;WHAT THE RIGHTEOUS DESIRE WILL BE GRANTED.

I don't know about you,but sometimes I get fearful asking God for my desires.I used to have this belief that if I pray for others,God will usually grant my request.But when I pray for myself,He won't grant my desire,because I'm not righteous.

That's a WRONG BELIEF!Because of this wrong belief,my blessings have been robbed by the devil.How about you?If you have that belief,it's time to let yourself free.

You are righteous.Your desires WILL BE GRANTED.Yes,you are FREE now.

My second point is about trusting God for our blessings.Especially in the area of finding a life partner.Now,I praise God that He has chosen a wonderful life partner for me.I'm glad that I trusted Him.

But before I knew about trusting God,I was very afraid of commiting my plans into the hands of God.Why?Because I was afraid that He was not give me what I want.For example in the area of finding a life partner,I've looked at a number of Christian couples.

Some of the wives don't look that fantastic.Or rather they are not my type.Hey I was being pretty stupid right?That's why God rebuked me,He told me this "Everyone is beautiful in someone's eyes".Yeah,that's very true.

I was very afraid that He would choose someone that's not to my liking in terms of looks.Maybe very good character,but no good looks.Now,that's nonsense.God can give you everything!You can have both looks and character.Don't believe in what you see around you.

Always remember this,you are in this world,but not of this world.

Now,let me share an interesting story from the Bible that will shine more light on this matter...

In Genesis,Abraham asked his servant to look for a wife for his son Issac.He went to well where the maidens of the town would go to draw water in the evening.This servant prayed "O Lord God of my master Abraham,please give me success this day,and show kindness to my master Abraham."(Genesis 24:12).

The phase "give me success" is actually one word,quarah in Hebrew,which means "right happening".In other words,the servant is praying "God,give me right happening today!"

The servant's prayer continues in Genesis 24:13-14...

13"Behold,here I stand by the well of water,and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water.14 Now let it be that the young woman to whom I say,'Please let down your pitcher that I may drink,'and she says,'Drink,and I will also give your camels a drink' - let her be the one you have appointed for Your Servant Issac.And by this I will know that you have shown kindess to my master."

By asking God for a woman who would give him a drink as well as his camels a drink,the servant was asking God for a woman who would go the extra mile.

Genesis 24:15-16 continues...

15 And it happended,before he had finished speaking,that behold,Rebekah,who was born to Bethuel,son of Milcah,the wife of Nahor,Abraham's brother,came out with her pitcher on her shoulder.16 Now the young woman who was very beautiful to behold,a virgin;no man had known her.And she went down to the well,filled her pitcher and came up.

Now,I used to think this way...if I prayed in this way,God will give me some ugly girl.Ugly but very nice character.I was really fearful about it.But this story proved me wrong.

The servant only asked "a right happening".And you can see,God overdelivers.He didn't specify that the girl must be "chio bu"(meaning pretty girl in hokkien).As you can see,God can put you at the right place and right time,if you allow Him to.If you ask and believe in Him.

Later on,the Bible tells us that Issac loved Rebekah.(Genesis 24:67).God knew beforehand that they would be good for each other.

In summary,a few points to note...

1.God always overdelivers.He will always give us more that what we ask for.

2.He sees further than us.If you allow Him to choose for you,you'll have the BEST CHOICE.

3.Be it your business,career or marriage,He can position you in the right time and right place.

PRAISE THE LORD!

Hope you are blessed by this revelation.Praise God for revealing this to me through Pastor Joseph Prince.So don't worry if you are single and looking for a life partner.Allow God to find the right one for you.

Alright,till the next time,be mightily blessed and prosperous.

Thursday, November 23, 2006

How To Get Attached If You Are Single, Lonely & Unhappy.What Price Are You Willing To Pay For Success?

Good Morning!It's a wonderful Friday morning,praise God!

As you know,I seldom work in mornings.I'm a nocturnal creature.In case you are wondering...I slept quite early last night.The night before,I didn't sleep till 7:10A.M. and then I had to report for work at 9AM.Basically I slept for only 2 hours.

Which explains why I slept early last night.

Oh well,that's not my main topic.My main topic is about commitment and paying the price to achieve what you really want in life.This thought came to mind while I was reading earlier on.Sometimes I do wonder...when people tell me that they want something,are they really serious about it?

Or they just want something and expect things to happend without taking action.Are you one of them?If you are,then it's time to change your thinking.

Let me share a story...

I had a friend who was single for the past 26 years of his life.He was very frustrated because he couldn't seem to get attached.Tried as hard as he could(according to him),nothing seemed to turn out right.

He came to me for advice,so I advised him accordingly what to do to get attached.But after a few advices,I realised something...he thinks with his heart,not his mind.If he's emotionally attached to something,it's futile to advise him against it.Even if it's not for his highest good.

I gave up.

After a few months,he seemed to change his thinking a little bit.Good for him.Then he started to approach me to mentor him and guide him to being attached.He told me he was ready.I was thinking...fine,when the student is ready,the teacher will appear.

Since he's ready,I'm willing to commitment my time and effort to help and guide him.

I gave him assignments to do.Some baby steps to be done each week.For the first few weeks,he did fine.Then after that,things started to happend.His computer broke down and his workload was too heavy.

I can understand that.

But what I felt unacceptable was the whining and complaining.This guy loves to whine.Now,my assignment is this...go to IRC and fish there.Practice your communication skills.Try to make sure you get at least 4 phone numbers and 4 E-mails.

Simple right?

He got less than the requirements.That's also fine with me.I think it's good that he made the first attempt.After that,the comp broke down.

Now,if someone is really committed,I don't care if the computer breaks down or not,he will have some way to finish up the work.This guy sort of gave up,and his attention went elsewhere.He was faced with a lot of problems at his workplace.

People sabo him and make use of him.Well,you get the picture.I sympathise with him.But commitment is still commitment.These bastards at his workplace are not the ones who will determine whether he'll get attached or not.He's wasting his energy on the wrong thing.

Week after week,I kept following up with him.But it seems like he has lost his fighting spirit.I kept questioning him.I know I sounded very harsh.I will do everything it takes to get him back on track.

But I can't.

Because he doesn't want to.You can't force a horse to drink.You can only lead the horse to the river.He pretty much got irritated with me for questioning him.But he does not know that I'm doing it for his own good.Do you think I have nothing better to do with my time?And let people dislike me?

I sincerely want to see him getting attached,but if he doesn't want to follow my instructions,there's nothing I can do.Think about this...if you were to give someone advice.This person doesn't follow your advice and he keeps complaining and whining.How would you feel?

Let me tell you,I was damn pissed off.I hate it when my time is wasted.And I come to understand why people remain failures.It's their attitude.There's a saying "Your attitude determines your altitude".How true this is.

Oh well...mediocre people will always be mediocre.

Bottomline...are you willing to pay the price for success?Are you a doer or complainer?

Now,let me tell you what happended to me.I not trying brag about how great I am.The point I want to drive across is you need to take action if you want to succeed.

Why I feel for this guy is because I knew how it felt to be lonely.All your friends attached while you are still single and alone.

Many years ago,during my polytechnic days,I was a totally failure in getting girls.I was shy,had low self-esteem and had totally no clue how to behave in front of them.But I wanted to have a girlfriend badly.

So my journey started in 1998...I started with using Alamak chat.I was fearful to talking to gals face to face,so the chatroom is a place for me to better express myself.After a while,there was this gal who told me she was interested in me.She was from TKGS(Tanjong Katong Girls School).

Wah...girls school man!Sounds good right?

Now,I was damn innocent back then.But come to think of it,she hasn't even met me before,how can she be interested in me?Besides,we have only chatted twice online.

I asked my friend to find out for me how she looked like.His sister was from TKGS.Later I realised that she was fat,ugly and desparate.Goodness me.OK,that was once of my first encoutners.

Then later on,I came to know this gal from Cedar Girls School.I found her interesting to talk to.Seemed nice.This time I was the despo one.I told her I was interested in her even though she was attached.What the fuck man!Looking back,I sometimes wonder was I crazy?

OK,she didn't respond in a bad way.In the end we kept in contact through E-mail.

One day,she sent me her photo with her classmates.Wah,not bad siah.She's slightly above average.I started to have more interest and increased my intensity of going after her.Later I realised that she broke up with her boyfriend.

Wah,that really made my day!

I was very happy.But I didn't take any action.I didn't ask her out.NOTHING.Just continued chatting...

Then the bomb came.She asked me whether I knew this guy from my course.I said his name sounded familiar.I went to find out about him.At first I thought he was her new boyfriend.Damn it!

Later I found out that this guy was just a friend of hers.But then he told me that she had a new boyfriend,who was a senior of ours and a top student.Wah!You could imagine how I felt...

So that was how the low self esteem came about.I thought I had to be academically smart to tackle gals.It took me a few months to get over her.

After that I went into IRC...

There are numerous cases,due to the time constraint I have,I'll share only the more impactful ones.

In IRC,I met with a lot of disappointments as well.Because of poor communication skills,gals found me a boring guy to chat with.And looking back,it's true,I was a boring guy back then.That's why I stressed on communication skills.

But the thing that improved was this...this time I started to ask them out for outings and movies.I managed to get a few dates.But some of them played me out.Because I wasn't what they imagined me to look like.As you can see,that was hurting my ego.

My self-esteem took another dive.

Despite all that,I persisted.I knew that if I continued,I would succeed someday.

All this went on and on...

One day,I chatted with this gal who had a lot of common interests as me.We could chat for hours and hours.In the end she called me on the phone and we spoke for hours and hours.BUT....

She was attached.Damn it!Why must this happend to me?!FUCKING HELL!!I really cursed heaven and earth for making my life miserable.

OK,one day she told me her boyfriend quarrelled with her.Then she kind of hinted that she would consider a guy if he was willing to admit his feelings for her.I didn't want to admit my feelings,after being hurt a few times.Besides that,I felt that if she was interested in me,she should say so.Hahaha,stupid right?

But it's also true to say that I wasn't too keen on her because of her looks.She's slightly below average.Though I wouldn't mind if she came after me.So I stood my ground.And sometime later,she told me her boyfriend wanted to patch.

Being single and lonely,I was jealous about this.So I decided to run away from her.Because I was feeling so jealous and I didn't want my feelings to deepen for her."Jealousy kills" right?

She kept trying to contact me,but I kept running away from her.And that ends her story.

Now I'll share the final failure before we close.

1999 came.A friend of mine from Mechanical Engineering recommeded a friend of his to me.This friend of his was a cassanova.I knew I met my "teacher".After failing so many times,it's time to learn from an expert.

This guy did teach me a number of things,how to approach and how to handle gals.I saw him in action a few times.But his was too advanced for me back then.He approached gals that he didn't know at all.

After learning some basic tricks,I went into IRC to fish again.This time armed with skills,I felt pretty confident.I was looking for a guinea pig to try out my skills.And the target appeared...

I met this girl in IRC because I was serving MP3s back then in the MP3 channels.We exchanged ICQ numbers and chatted almost every night.I found her quite an intersting person.We shared a lot of common interests as well and loved to sing.

OK,I decided.This shall be my guinea pig.

I started to dig out information from her.What type of guys she liked and etc...In the end,I found out she was interested in this army guy.She liked him because he was more matured.Then I asked her why did she like him.She told me because one night while chatting,he told her that he wanted to count stars with her at East Coast Park.

My next question was,has she ever seen him before?She said no.Wah,this is easy target man!(I didn't know I was playing with fire.)

OK.The fun begins...

I went on to tell her I was interested in her as well.She asked me why did I fall for her.I answered there was no why...love is blind...you don't need a why to like someone.(Hahaha I was laughing to myself as I typed that in ICQ,I was sounding like a casanova).

Then I proceeded to send her a surprise Birthday Gift.I knew her birthday was coming.I bought everything,had it wrapped up and asked her for her home address.She asked me why did I want her address.I told her I had a surprise for her.

She was very happy when she received the gift.Next step was to ask her out.I managed to get a date with her.She was skeptical because she was afraid that I'll change my mind after meeting her.

I assured her that I won't mind how she looked like.(Actually I did mind.I'm a guy after all.But then if she wasn't up to standard,it was still ok because I was experimenting anyway.)When I saw her face to face,she's another average looking girl.We went to East Coast Park that night and sat at the beach talking.

I had a great time talking to her.That was when I really started to fall for her.Damn it!Now acting becomes real.But that night I didn't hold her hands.We just talked under the stars.Romantic siah.It was a great night.

I accompanied her home and I returned home feeling great.We chatted in ICQ again and she told me she felt comfortable with me.(Wah,looks like I'm on my way to success).I started to schedule for another outing.This time we went to KTV.It wasn't as good as the last date because she was down.

I wondered why.She told me that army guy was sending confusing signals to her.Damn army guy again.I was a little pissed to hear about him.Anyway,after the singing session,we went down to Tiong Bahru Market to eat Fried Ice Cream.I managed to take my favourite bus with her.It was a great combo,favourite gal on favourite bus.My 9074 D was at Bedok Interchange at the right time.

After the ice cream,we took MRT back.But this meeting didn't turn out as well as the previous one.

I decided to launch another attack.To try to tackle her before her feelings went deeper for the army guy.I talked to her for hours about how I felt about her and the benefits she would get if she becomes my gal.

Wah,after long hours of chatting in ICQ until the wee hours...Finally,she agreed to become my girlfriend.I couldn't sleep at all.I was so happy and excited.I thought I had won the game...

Far from it.

I didn't know the bomb was coming...

We continued chatting for a few days...until the 5th day...

She told me to wait for her because she was busy.I didn't know why so I waited for 2 hours.When she came back she told me she was chatting with the army guy.What the hell?

So I am a spare?!

I got really pissed and told her if she wants to stick with that guy,she shouldn't agree to be my gal.I told her if she regretted,she can back off.She told me she was trying to accept me and yet I said those things to her.She told me she wants to think about it seriously before comitting to me.

Wah,really kena BOMB.I kinda regretted what I said to her.Being attached is better than nothing right?Oh well,looking back,I felt that I did the right thing.No point being a spare type.

But anyway,she told me to wait for her to consider.(That's a nice way to reject you).I was stupid enough to wait for 6 months.OK,after waiting for 6 months,I gave up hope.

The next gal that I went after became my "real" girlfriend.I was finally attached.The rest is history.

After reading my stories,you may find that it's not that tough.I have left out a number of challenges that I went through due to the time and space here.Maybe one day I might release a book on this.

One thing that made me succeed finally was my commitment.I went into IRC to practice my skills every night.Even during my practical lessons(I'm not advocating that you do that) and always got a scolding from my lecturer.

I knew that if I kept doing it and kept practicing,I will succeeded someday.It's useless walking down Orchard Road and getting jealous of couples.Especially those pretty gals with ugly guys.(Beauty and the Beast).Pointless.Ask yourself what can you do to succeed.Don't just use eye power.Take action!

If you are really interested in getting attached,I recommend that you do the following...

1.Practice your communication skills.Practice your conversational skills.How can you make people interested in talking to you?How can you make your presence enjoyable to others?

2.You self-esteem.How do you see yourself?Are you confident?Are you able to withstand rejection?Who are you trying to please everytime?

My personal quote:"If I choose you,it's your luck.If you don't choose me,it's your loss."

3.Increase your knowledge.Read books on seduction.Neil Strauss's "The Game" is a good book to get you started.

4.Apply the knowledge you've learn.Practice,practice and practice.Until you get your desired results.

5.Commitment.Commit to keep working until you get what you want.Don't give up.Be tough and tenacious.

OK,I'm going to close.Hope this inspires you.I've enjoyed sharing.God Bless.:)

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Using Birth Dates To Determine Pretty Gals...


How have you been?November is here...As promised,I'll make an effort to blog every month,despite my busy and hectic schedule.

This time round I want to share something interesting with you.I discovered this by accident.You probably know...I like to analyse birthdates.Especially those of pretty gals.Recently,I have been doing a lot of research in this area...

By being able to work in a clinic,I am able to analyse a lot of birth dates because I have access to all the information.Well,recently,there was this gal who came to see the doctor.Actually saw her once before.She kind captivated me.

I always thought she looked familiar,but somehow can't recall who she looked like.After going to KTV and singing "Bei Feng Chui Guo De Xia Tian",I realised that she looked like Jin Sha.

I had a great difficulty finding out Jin Sha's exact birthdate.Recently,Christopher wanted to use her as a model for attracting his future wife.(To put it simply,he wanted his future wife to look like Jin Sha and he's using the law of attraction to get what he wanted).

Needless to say,Christopher knows quite a lot about Jin Sha.I asked him for Jin Sha's exact birthdate.He told me he needed to go and find out then let me know.He forgot about it when he got home and I was pretty impatient.

I decided to go online and try my luck.

But I ended up with only the month and day.Her birthday falls on 14th March.But I don't know the year.

Now back to that gal who came to the clinic and looked like her...I know that gal's exact birthdate is 14th September 1987.Using the X-Ray numbers formula,her primary number is 1+4 = 5.

Her secondary number is 1+4+9+1+9+8+7 = 39. 3+9 = 12.Reducing to a single digit number, 1+2 = 3. Her secondary number is 3.

Now,since Jin Sha and her looked alike,therefore their combination should be the same.Since both of them are born on the 14th.

So for this case,Jin Sha's Secondary Number should be 3 as well.

Let's look at the information we have...

14th March 198X.

We know she's born in the 1980s,but don't know which year.

By adding up what we have...

1+4+3+1+9+8+X = A number that reduces to 3 as a single digit.

26+X = A number that reduces to 3 as a single digit.

The nearest number that reduces to 3 as a single digit is 30.

Therefore X = 30-26.

X = 4.

In conclusion,Jin Sha's exact Birthdate should be 14th March 1984.

I was pretty excited about this....wondered if my theory really worked.I called up Christopher to ask him again for the exact date.

He told me he'll sms me once he find it.I received his sms the next day.It was exactly as what I said.


Now,I didn't know X-Ray Numbers was this POWERFUL!Before I discovered this,I used it only to analyse character and personality.

So the bottomline is this,if you want to look for a gal that looks like any movie star,what you need to do is to find out the movie star's primary and secondary number.And try to find a gal with that combination.Although you may not strike 100%,but the looks should be quite smiliar.

Do try it!

Anyway,I'll be releasing an E-Book on this subject in the future.I'll probably name it "X-Ray Numbers VS Pretty Gals".

Meanwhile,I'm working on the "X-Ray Numbers Romance" E-Book.It's a guide for singles.Basically it teaches you how to handle the different categories of people.With this book,you can read anyone like an X-Ray Machine.Anytime,anywhere.

If you use this on your dates,you'll be able to have substantial success in romance.As the saying goes,"Know thyself and know thy enemy,you'll win every single battle you fight!".

This E-Book will only be launched sometime next year.I'm still working on it.

I have just completed a FREE E-Report,it's titled "The Secrets Of Determining Your Lover".Once everything is edited and uploaded,I will list out the URL and you can download it.

This report reveals a very simple formula for you to determine your lover.Who is compatible with you and who is not.You can use this to choose your partner.

There's another secret formula which determines your soul mate.Couples who meet this criteria will never separate.Even if they break up,somehow they'll still end up back together.If you are single and looking for a stable relationship,this is the type of guy/gal you need to look for.Everything is revealed in the E-Report...

Interested to know more?Stay tuned.

I got to go back and work.Hope you enjoyed reading.God bless.